The one thing every man wants to stay away from is a gold digger. No one looks forward to give their heart and soul to a person that is only after one thing – money.
Now, she may be great at hiding her interest in using you as a sugar daddy, but there are quite a few ways that you can figure out if she is digging for your wallet or not.
Keep in mind, women that come from rich families may not be gold diggers, but they will expect the finer things in life.
1. She Is Excessively Interested in What You Do for Living & Your Financial Status
It is quite common for a person to ask about your work and what you do. When two people talk to each other, a lot of the conversations will be about work and your interests. However, when she is just looking for your cash, you will find that there is a level of obsession taking place.
Typically, unless the two of you are very serious, she should not be interested in your financial status. When she starts asking about how much you make, when you will move up in a company or what your current debt levels are, the girl is simply too interested in cash.
The only exception to this rule would be someone in the same field as you that simply wants to see if their salary is aligned with what a man receives.
2. She Lacks Any Career Aspirations
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Aspirations are something that every person must have. In fact, you had an aspiration to find out of if your woman is a gold digger or not.
Unfortunately, we are no longer living in a time where women will not work, or at least think about it. The reality is that she will likely have to work and you should not be with her if all you are is an ATM machine.
If she has no career aspirations and would rather stay at her dead-end job instead of bettering herself, chances are you would be supporting her throughout the relationship.
3. She Asks for Expensive Gifts
Have you heard the expression “it’s the thought that counts?” Well, when giving a woman a gift, she should never ask the price or ask for a more expensive alternative.
If her birthday or a special holiday is coming up and she asks for an really pricey gift, she is simply in it for the money. You never want to be with a lady that asks or demands costly gifts.
If she loves and respects you, she will be happy with a gift of both $5 or $5,000 value.
4. She Gets Mad If She Does Not Get What She Wants
A woman that goes ballistic or gives you a guilt trip when she doesn’t get what she wants will simply get worse over time. Unfortunately, this is a sign that is so evident that you will want to run the other way.
There is no price tag attached to love and if she can’t handle not getting what she wants in a mature manner, it is not worth the effort to stay with her.
5. She Is Always in Financial Trouble or Crisis
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Financial crisis is a little tricky to discern when it comes to a detecting whether she is just after your cash. A person that just lost their job may be in a money crisis, but they are not necessarily after your finances.
However, if she has a good job but is always broke, you may have a woman that simply has no financial responsibility. This will lead to her asking you for cash, or if your relationship gets serious, she will be the one causing debt and leading you to financial instability.
Younger girls may have budgeting issues, but older women should not. If she can’t control her spending habits, she may just be using you for money.
6. Her Friends Are Gold-diggers as Well
You can tell a lot about a woman by meeting people from her closest circle. If a girl has a lot of friends that are only after men for their money, she will likely have this same attitude.
People attract others that they have things in common with. If her buddies, especially her best friend, is a gold-digger, you need to tread lightly.
Keep in mind: While she may not emulate her friends, many women do in this regard.
7. She Never Wants to Pay for Anything
Traditionally, men pay for the bill, but times are changing. While you may do so when going out to a fancy restaurant or when you invite her to go out to eat, you should not be the one paying the bill if you go out for a cup of coffee or she wants to stop for a snack when you are not hungry.
The idea that you have to pay for everything is simply fading away. If she demands or asserts that you must be the payer of all bills, she is stuck in a time that no longer exists. It is okay to pay for the bill, but it should never be something that is always done or expected by her.
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8. She Is a Clothes-Brand Freak
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How much do brands matter to you? Like most men, you probably do not pay much attention to the brands that you wear. Women, on the other hand, may like a certain brand that scream expensive.
Gucci, Prada and various others cost more than some people’s entire weekly paycheck. If she is wearing only the best of the best brands and will not settle for less, she may feel entitled or she may be unwilling to choose items that are less expensive.
9. She Does Not Use Words Like Please & Thank You Too Much
“Please” and “thank you” are simply words that mean a lot when they are said. When you break down this meaning, you will see why these are so important to a person.
- Please – Asking for an item in a polite manner shows respect and general courtesy. This is asking for something versus demanding.
- Thank you – Appreciative in nature, the words “thank you” indicate that a person is appreciative of an action you took.
If she does not say these two words, she simply expects things to be done for her and doesn’t respect you or your feelings.
10. She Is Obsessed with Acquiring High Social Status
Social status is definitely an indicator that she may be a gold digger or very high maintenance. When she wants to acquire a new level of her status, she may have an unrealistic view of who will be the one footing the bill for such an acquisition.
Going to a gala or driving a car that is well out of her budget are good indicators of a problem with her social status. In this case, she needs a slap of reality or she will be expecting you to pay for her way to a new level.
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Every person has their wants and desires, but some are willing to take advantage of others to get it. If she is a gold digger, she is simply not worth your time. She should want to be with you because she cares for you, not because she wants a new car, designer purses or extravagant gifts. A relationship is about love, not what you can buy a person.