SMART ladies do their homework before putting themselves through the exhausting process of dating. Here are five things informed women do to help weed through the millions of fish in the sea to find the real catches.
1. Don’t sleep with them until marriage.
I think the easiest way to see how serious a guy is, is to see how long he’s willing to hold out. If he’s just in it for s*x, then he won’t wait around that long. Pay more attention to their actions than their words.
2. Pay more attention to their actions than their words.
Guys will say a lot of B.S. when they first meet you. Many talk a big game, but never actually do anything about it. Take everything they say with a grain of salt until there’s evidence to back it up. Remember that it’s much more important how they SHOW their love than anything they SAY about it.
3. Do a little research.
There’s nothing wrong with snooping as long as it’s done with good intentions. Smart women use social media to navigate through all the ugly challenges that come with dating.
4. Ask tough questions.
These women are not afraid of a guy running away when they start to get nosy. It’s your time and effort he wants, so make sure he’s worth. Ask him how he feels about things that are important to you, and you’ll know in no time whether or not you’re on the same level. (A smart guy should come prepared for those questions anyway.)
5. Make sure he’s worth it.
You want to make sure your romantic options are at the same level as you. There’s no point in dating if you both don’t want the same things, yes? Why pretend you’re compatible if you can already see some fundamental differences from the outset? You don’t want to waste your time getting to know someone who isn’t even a logical person to date. Be realistic at the beginning and save yourself a lot of pain later.