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  1. flamephlegm

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    Great advice!

  2. LowerZz

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    I get a lot of females asking me out for a date, but i just dont have the confidence to go through with it. I feel like every other male in the world is better than me in every way possible. im 26 and never had a relationship but have had plenty of offers. I guess when you hate yourself how could you imagine anyone else liking you….i always want the best for people and i always feel the best is not me, but hey lifes hard

  3. Janet Slater

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    What about those of us who have never been in a relationship (or it’s literally been decades since being in one), and don’t really want to put in the effort to be in one?

  4. ? ven

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    Regarding #1: I get the idea of loving yourself and caring for yourself, but don't we also depend on the love and care of others? It baffles me that I should first be perfectly in touch and peace with myself before I enter a relationship. How the f*ck am I going to find a relationship this way? I am 22 right now and it will take me at least until I am thirty before I "love myself". I am not trying to mock the idea, I am totally with you on that, but is it really necessary to do that before dating?

    In my opinion, nobody's perfect and nobody ever will be, so why should I be perfectly clean with myself before starting to date? Isn't dating and being in a relationship actually a place to LEARN about your flaws and issues and work on them? We are interdependent beings and depend on love not only from ourselves but also from others. And this person must not be friends and family, but it can also be a girl/-boyfriend, even though I see the danger, if you spend most of your time with your gf/bf, to emotionally depend on them, and maybe that is the point you are trying to make. Maybe you first need to establish a certain baseline of self-love and self-trust before entering a relationship to not become a couple who needs each other, but decides to depend on one another.

    I am not sure if I got you right, Kati, but I believe that you don't have to have a perfectly established relationship with yourself before entering a romantic relationship. In the relationship or after the relationship you would realize what is wrong and search ways to deal with it, i.e. build a loving relationship to yourself. Still love your videos, Kati, just my thought on your first point.

  5. Der Aua

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    Date a variety of people…. lol, try doing that when people you just talk plainly tell you things like "I don't care ugly guys", "I like you but my girlfriends would laugh at me for going out with someone who looks like you", "you need a face transplant"… 😀

    I never walk away….
    I'm not overweight, unsporty, …
    36 by now… single for all my life, not for lack of trying…

  6. Anthony Ramirez

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    Kati, at some point in the future, would you be willing to talk about limerence? I have crushes on men, but they’re older than me and I feel like I do it because I want that paternal love. But limerence really warrant its own video?

  7. AlphaDog Elite3

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    Go outside? How do we watch Netflix outside? Isn’t there too much glare?

  8. Jay Blackberries

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    What do you mean by DATING A VARIETY OF PEOPLE ???

  9. Rose Garcia

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    "Walk away" the best advice for women ever….I find it hard to do sometimes. Must work on this….

  10. Cody Porter

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    I wish I could enjoy myself and get dates but I'm just too broken

  11. Carleigh wilsonator

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    The only relationship I've ever been in was an unloving one. Well I loved him but he never said he didn't love me. Now I'm terrified I'm unlovable

  12. Night Train123

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    I can't date. It's too terrifying for me.

  13. SookyBear369

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    Some men say "I have diabetes" or "I have cancer" when you try to leave them.

  14. zmoney

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    Even if you aren't gay, date a man.

  15. 1237

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    It's true what you said about being ready to find a partner. I wasn't ready when I found the love of my life… we had a rocky start. Now I've grown as a person and we are both happy. I could have lost him so easily, I had a lot of luck on the way. Relationship won't cure your mental illness, you will ne just as depressed as you were before the relationship. Yes, having the right people to support you on the way helps a lot but just keep in mind that it's not their responsiblity to make you happy. Unfortunately mentall illness has been a really big problem in my relationship but talking about it openly and really taking my time to make him understand that it's not his fault has helped us a lot. I've learned a lot along the way

  16. Mar

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    The whole " can't love others unless you love yourself" always makes me uncomfortable because does that mean my love is automatically less just because of a mental heal problem which affects how I view myself. It's way easier to love other then it is to love yourself and I often find others help bring the best out in me and help me maybe not love but like myself a bit

  17. Neversaw

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    My struggle is that no one wants to date me for more than one date. Going on 33 and just getting worse not better at this life thing

  18. Emes Clarke

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    Great advice, Kati👌 You're the best 🏆

  19. Catherine D

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    After my first breakup ( a 5 years long relationship), I felt so empty! I took a year and a half to work on my life before considering dating again. It was a really great move!!! I feel like my new relationship is a lot more balanced because of that 🙂

  20. JH

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    Here's my two cents. If you're having trouble meeting someone and you're a man, whatever you do, avoid online dating. Any trace of self-worth you have will vanish. After several years of everything from Match, OkCupid, Tinder, Bumble, etc., I have met no one meaningful. You will craft a decent profile and post nice pictures and everyone you message will either not open your message, or not respond. People will tell you to change your profile or, "post a picture with a puppy/guitar/baby in it" and you will try every version of everything and I promise you, any woman that you're interested will still cast you into the abyss. Try to be funny, try to be smart, try to be serious, none of it works. Everyone has all the answers for you, but none of it matters. Who are these women dating? This has ruined my entire view on humanity and women. Every woman I have approached in person has rejected me and the rest of the world seems to be in some kind of relationship. Madness.

  21. grytlappar

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    I like how pragmatic your suggestions are, as opposed to the usual tiresome platitudes. It actually makes me sit up and notice. Some. 😉 No, really, it's good.

  22. Gian Patrick

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    Thank you for this! I'm in a counseling master's program seeing my own therapist and the part about not dating to complete you really spoke to me

  23. C J

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    I wish I could double triple LOVE this video.
    This is beautifully said.

    Thank you!

  24. icy ivy

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    0:07 that's why they are there?
    BULLSHIT! All men are there as long as their need IS there.

  25. Willy Loman

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    There was no dating scene where I grew up – only drunken hook-ups that sometimes led to a relationship. I was part of that and years later when I got separated and was too old to for the old habits I had no idea what I was supposed or allowed to do. That's now 21 years ago and I still don't know how to express that I'm interested.

  26. Laura Mowle

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    One of the wonderful times and ways I knew I loved things about my then boyfriend (now husband of 14 years) was when we went to Octoberfest together. It was fun neither of had ever been to an Octoberfest event before. But the main thing was we stood and watched people doing the polka for awhile. He asked me if I wanted to try it since neither of us had ever done it before. I mean how hard could it be right? We were terrible we bounced into other couples and seemed more like we were imitating a pinball machine then dancing. But he laughed, I laughed and we kept right on going. Other people I had gone out with first would never have tried it second the minute it was clear we were terrible he would have stopped. Mike didn't care that we were probably making fools of ourselves we just enjoyed the moment and went with it. I've dated soon many that were not that way and that's probably one of the things I find so attractive about my husband. So yes, once you've dated a bunch of people that are all the same you KNOW when you see something different and decide if you like it.

  27. AnthonyZePro

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    no wonder i've been single for 23 years can't wait to die alone from my addiction

  28. Fuzzy Dunlop

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    #5 made me laugh as someone with ADHD. I swear I'm listening I'm just ALSO looking at that mural over there!

  29. Roman Fox

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    1:11

    in a relationship with somebody named Sean/Sean/Shawn.

    I'm crushed.

  30. Libby Ralph

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    Could you possibly do dating with an eating disorder? Xx😬

  31. yosra tag

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    we want series on dating 🙏💗💗

  32. Haley Underwood

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    I wish you were my therapist you're so awesome!

  33. Jay Mills

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    Humans are by nature interdependent and the whole point of attachment theory is … attachment so I like the major tenants but living yourself first is a bit misleading. We do rely on others for certain levels of wholeness otherwise we would remain single en masse.

  34. Temp Jones

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    Hi, Katie, ive been watching you for a while now and I really like your videos, they help me a lot. I'm in a relationship right now, and it's not going well. The main issue is communication, my partner doesn't communicate with me well even though I try my best to always be there for him. This relationship I'm in right now is by far the worst, I know it's borderline emotionally and mentally abusive, and my friends don't like him and they want me to leave him. But for some reason I keep telling myself it'll get better? Will it? I always try to compromise or fix problems but I don't know…it's like he's not trying sometimes. But I found out that my university counselor office offers couples therapy, so my partner and I booked an appointment for ir. I don't know to expect and I'm a little frightened, do you have any advice or tips on how to prepare for the first meeting?

  35. Darl Ray

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    I tried to date and she thought we were just meeting as friends and I later expresed my fealings she said she did not like me that way and she just wanted to be friends

  36. Marc Santos

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    Truth, thank you

  37. Carly but really BATMAN

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    SIPS OF COFFEE! lolol

  38. Maria Flores

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    Any advice for people in a relationship with someone with BPD? Thanks 😊

  39. Emily Outen

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    i really need a date for military ball this year to carry on the tradition of battalion commander starting all the dancing with a waltz but im horrible at asking someone. literally last year when I asked someone it was through a note and I still practically ran out of the room and had a panic attack in the restroom. How do i get over the fear of asking someone or at least hide my inner fear?

  40. TofuDream

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    How hard was dating since you are child free? I also think I'd rather not have kids but most men seem to want them

  41. ihartevil

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    my tip is dont date its a waste of time but thats just the best advice i can give to somebody until they figure it out for themselves

    it took my friend in college 35 years to figure that out and she ended up being single with 3 children to take care of before she came to that conclusion

  42. ihartevil

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    thx for this interestingly ha bisky vid i say just make a list of things you want in a guy and make sure they make most of the list so that way you arent getting into a relationship that wont go anywhere

  43. Alan Smithee

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    IMO #5 is key for men to avoid wasting time on a vapid or mean or shallow but otherwise beautiful woman. If you LISTEN, I find that you can figure out if she's TRULY worth your time, or if she just looks good.

  44. Light Yagami

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    Can I truely love someone if I hate myself? I have a BPD.

  45. Ayatron34

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    I have the only dating tip you'll ever need.

    Don't date. If you need sex, there are easier ways. If you need friendship there are easier ways. I don't get this great wish to combine the two.

  46. Katie Farra

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    Hello, Kati! I was diagnosed with persistent depressive disorder, and my therapist told me that I need to be completely honest and open with her so she can help. However, opening up is hard. When I was first diagnosed, I even cried, and that embarrassed me tremendously. How can I push back the anxiety of opening up and be able to tell her exactly what I am feeling during therapy? Any suggestions? Thanks!

  47. Britni Marie

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    I really liked this video. I'm terrified to go on a date because I've had bad experiences meeting new guys. I was raped by one, the other guy I met was all touchy feely moving his hands all over my body…. I ended up having a panic attack. Or guys want to meet me at 10 or later, I don't feel comfortable going out past 10 with someone I don't know or just starting to know. How can I get over my fear of meeting new guys and where does one look in order to meet guys. I've tried Tinder and the guys don't respond. I tried meetme and all the guys wanted was sex. I tried plenty of fish (POF) and thats where I met the guy who raped me. So I don't trust meeting guys from online. HELP

  48. Hannah Sham

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    I believe i have anxiety issues and it gets worsts when i have to face people (as in presentations etc),
    I feel uncomfortable in large groups but it depends on my mood.
    I am having trouble figuring out my OWN feelings. i am blank.

    I just realised something, since y parents have been divorced(I was a lil child) until now, I am 21 years old, I do not and CANNOT 'feel' much about my parents's separation, I am blank about it. I do not understand why and maybe this explains why I am blank today… sometimes.

    Also! I have trouble putting my thoughts into words if i have an argument… i get blank again.

    I hope to get a reply Xx

  49. 2.5low Garage

    October 6, 2019 at 5:58 pm

    Easier said than done, I don't meet a lot of people I'd like to date. If I meet somebody I'm atttracted to, they are usually already in a relationship. Plus people my age act like they have one foot in the grave. They see me as childish because I'm obsessed over a "silly" bicycle (I mtn bike 1-2 times a week). Show me people my age & I'll show you beer guts, diabetes, & hypertension. None of which are words that describe me. Match & eHarmony have wasted my time & money. I've emailed 110 women & Ive had Zero dates to show for it (not that I'm bitter). Maybe I give bad email? Maybe I'm just socially awkward AF?

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