We are married for more than 10 years now and have two beautiful daughters. Tied in the regularities of our day to day life we had stopped enjoying each other’s company. So I started meeting my friends more often, took solo vacations and started enjoying life again. I recently got to know that my husband is having an affair with his ex-girlfriend. I felt hurt at first but then I felt grateful that there is something that’s keeping him happy (and busy). And the fact that he is trying to keep it a secret from me makes me feel important. He is not letting that affair affect our domestic life and I really have nothing to complain. Am I wrong if I don’t want to confront him about the affair? Does that make me a bad wife?