A rebound relationship is what happens when someone breaks up with a partner and jumps right into another one or just shortly after.
For many guys, this appears to be a better option than ‘mourning’ the loss of that . relationship.
Whereas ladies would allow themselves go through the motions that come after a breakup, many guys would rather go into another relationship to avoid going through that process, and also to prove that they have moved on from that former relationship.
Sadly, that is not always the truth, and below are the signs that’ll make you know that your boyfriend only used you as a rebound; he hasn’t really moved on from that his ex.
1. He keeps mementos from that relationship
Memories are precious and people hold onto them only if they are truly, really precious.
No loves to keep bad memories, so if your boyfriend has something from that ex-girlfriend which he treasures so much, something is definitely wrong.
If he’s trying to forget her, he won’t be keeping that shirt she left behind at his place befire they broke up.
He’d have tossed that thing long ago
2. He tries too hard
Ok, agreed, this might be a bit difficult to detect but it happens and it is very true.
In a bid to show that they have truly moved on, guys sometimes do extra in a new relationship than they would normally do.
Overdose of care, extra attention, numerous gifts, plenty selfies that always end up on their social media page, etc.
This would be so cool if they were doing it because they actually mean it. But that’s the problem – they actually don’t.
It is more about that ex than it is about you. Those beautiful selfies and everything they do for you is just to get back at that ex-girlfriend.
It’s all to prove to her that they have moved on.
3. He talks too much about her
This is totally wrong, too. And it is a very easy pointer to the fact your boyfriend probably took you as a rebound relationship.
4. He hates her
This is meant to be a good thing, right? Your partner hates his ex so bad. He’s always talking about how terrible she was, and how badly-behaved she was and how he’s glad that that chapter of his life is over.
But what if that is just reverse psychology in motion?
What if he still loves her and means the direct opposite of every bad stuff he says about her and the negative emotion he shows towards her.
5. He make comparisons
If he belittles your beauty, efforts, care, cooking, lovemaking and basically makes you feel insignificant, he could be comparing to that ex he is still hung on.
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