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Can I have a girlfriend and remain 100% focused on my career? – Lifestyle News

Dear Bukky,

I am a 27 years old guy. I’ve got no problem flirting or relating with females, but I have never been in a relationship and… I really fear commitment. I will always choose growing in my career over anything. I feel a relationship might stall my career.

But I really want to try out a relationship or say, have an experience of it. Sometimes I feel that I have lost out on having very lovely females as friends/partners because even though many of them put lots effort into wooing me, I always turn them down. I need advice, please.

Dear reader,

There is nothing stopping you from having both. I really do believe that love and relationships are not necessarily to weigh you down. Really, you do not have to leave one for the other. I repeat again, even more convincingly, that that career that means so much to you is not necessarily threatened by the presence of a lover.

You would need to become a better time manager, and a better  person to accommodate that relationship you are looking to have.

But surely, you can do it. Love and a great career are not mutually exclusive. You can have it all, and please by all means, get it all.

Do you want to talk about your love life, marriage or family issues?

Do you have burning questions that you would love to get answers to?

Just send a mail to [email protected] and I’ll provide the most honest answers to them anonymously.

Note; the chances of getting a quick response reduces if the text in your email has a lot of abbreviations. So, please write as properly as possible.

So, why not send that mail today and let’s talk about it?

A problem shared is a problem half-solved!

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