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In this video, you will learn exactly what to do if you are dating a man who says he doesn’t want a relationship at this time. That’s right, we are going to go through a step by step plan to figure out if he just needs a little more time to get to know you, or if he is just wasting your time. And, I’ll tell you exactly what to do to get him to commit now. So, get out a pen and some paper and let’s figure this out.

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  1. Antonio Borrello

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    The most difficult part of these situations is deciding if you should give him more time, or if you should just walk away. What do you all think about the five questions that help determine if wanting a relationship is reasonable? Let's start a discussion. =) . Antonio

  2. Яна Белозерова

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    All that Games annoys. If man don’t SEE you, why would you bother yourself with showing/tricks or else. Just live him in peace

  3. Donna-Ann Scott

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Amen!!!

  4. Maria Lucia Ompoc

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    You are so right!!! I always keep my options open 🙂

  5. Around Denver

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    I have been married to ‘the don’t want a relationship ‘ man for 20 years, this will continue to be a problem in some form or another throughout the entire relationship.

  6. Keke Sunshyn

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    I love your videos❤️

  7. Dana Alon

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    I totally understand the concept of "he may need more time" but if ive gone on five dates with this person and he felt the need to put it out there that he is looking for just something casual and doesn't want to be tied down. When we see each other it is very much not about the sex, we enjoy our time with one another and have conversation aside from only sex. If he says he only wants something casual why put in the time to get to know me and build a friendship and be very affectionate when all he wants is something casual. Wouldn't it be the best thing to just leave it at that instead of continuing to build a relationship knowing we want different things with no guarantee that I will get hurt in the end.

  8. Hadeer Saeed

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    What if he is afraid of commitment as he think that I’m not loyal? Shouldn’t I prove to him that he is wrong?

  9. Rose Fernandez

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Man is very hard to understand. Tiry. I dnt need anymore….

  10. Pamela Davies

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Hey U, U, U kn too much Dr Antonio Borello. Who atall can win Ur love after Ur devorced issue?? Hmmm, I used to date this handsome fair guy when I was 18 yrs. We weren't intimate though but loved eachother. We didn't breakup but we were parted. I got married and had a child and got devorced. Years after we met again and he is matured likewise me. He never got married and he still shows interest in me but seems so much engaged wd work. We normally engage ourselves wd communication on phone. I want him to commit but I don't kn how. He told me that he will fix a date wd me but hasn't told me when that will be. Pls give me the steps I can take to make him commit. I hv long stayed and tired wd loneliness now. Thanks.

  11. gerafina li

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    American dating system is completely weird. Do you know that in Europe , if you like someone you just become a couple and if you realise you're not a good match, you split up. Tata! Easy

  12. anawonka

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    8,21 omg what a beautiful woman no wonder no fuckin man date me. She is like a godess im sitting here looking like fiona out of shrek lmao

  13. Mary Kathleen Sapp

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    As usual, good advice! See others and explore what is out there… don't put your life on hold! Do not tolerate less than you deserve…

  14. Margarita Cienfuegos

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    I think I've seen his true colors so I'm not going to give him another opportunity to waste my time. When he does feel like reaching out to me, I'm just not available any more.

  15. SplitCity

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Hey what if somebody was interested in you and you didnt feel anything but after time you realised that person is good enough but at the same point now hey are interested in someone else?? Should I pursue or just take lesson and move on??

  16. Claudia Williams

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    How will he know I’m dating other people? Under normal circumstances he will just ask if I’m available on Saturday, if I’m not available because I have a date he’ll just ask, “How about Wednesday?” 🤷🏻‍♀️

  17. Lucila Melendez

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    There's This guy I like he from the start stated he didn't want relationship , Just a friendship but we had sex several times. I started catching feelings and his actions and misleads say different. His always concerned where and with who I'm going to be with and where I been all day.. His out seeing other girls and I have never lost my mind but when I see and hear about his dates I blow up. His my priority I drop everything for him And he's changed me and my life.. And Yea I see many red flags but I'm in love with him.. I know he has feelings for me his actions say it all but he pushes me away and that hurts.. What should I do? I don't want to loose him!

  18. ria Oropeza

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Can you make a video for married people and how to keep him happy?

  19. Classykisses

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    He was wasting my time👊🏽👎🏽🗑

  20. Amanda Garcia

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Wonderful video. Spot-on advice. I used these tactics in the past and sure enough? it "sifts out" the USERS, LOSERS, and MOOCHERS before we invest too much of our time with them. Great channel. All your advice really is beneficial. Thank you for your work:-)

  21. AdrienneStarr

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    If he's having financial issues, I don't want a relationship either✌

  22. Better Late Than Broke

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    I didn't hear 'im not ready for a relationship'..I heard 'This will never work'..I can never get a date.I don't know what I'm doing wrong.

  23. MizzAmberyummy

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Dating is way to complicated these days. I have noticed the majority of these men want you to prove to them over & over again that you are a worthy woman & you're marriage material. I as a woman would Never overly prove myself to a man to see my worth. If a man can't see your worth without overly proving yourself, he is not worth your time. It's like you're playing a game for 6 months to a year before a man actually shows you the attention, affectionate, & caring. It's so sad these days.
    I personally don't want to date nor a marriage anymore, I never gave up on faith just these sorry men.
    Great video

  24. Michelle N

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Was in a 6 yr relationship he left me two months ago he popped up again and now he wants to take it slow again idk what to do or just move on cause its not official again and i feel like im wasting my time waiting for something that is not gunna happen

  25. pandorao

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    How you tell him you dating others.???
    Please help

  26. Josephine Valdez

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    1-3years observation dating,testing, drama, is enough for me .after that time frame if he is no action…leave him cause he is wasting your time.Though he will make any reason dont believe him anymore.still have 3 months to finish this year,after this year ,need to finish everything.WALK AWAY…..1-3 years knowing each other is very long time….walk away after that time frame.Though u are inlove with him, he keep telling he is still love u,and u alone,dont believe him anymore.. walk away,leave him

  27. Diana Prince

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Omg guys like to breadcrumb and waste women’s time because they are afraid of commitment. They don’t want anything serious but expect their girlfriend to pay his bills, do his laundry, clean up behind him, give him money, co-sign for car, paying the rent, etc. ladies don’t do it go date other men since he doesn’t want anything serious, let him handle his business himself or go see his boys. Set boundaries and expectations and maybe he will come around if not move on.

  28. Debbie Welby

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    This is just too difficult

  29. Gal Xy

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    It reminded some of my lifetime experience in which I very well learned at various different circumstances that : life is NOW and only it. On this subject one of those experiences, was exactly what you mentioned, I've always been " one person at time " type, my personality since ever, so indeed once it was mistaken by " only you FOREVER " which is VERY different. So the guy " took me for granted" and as you exactly said " gave no shit about nothing " ." Ok" ….then came LIFE ….out of nothing…some other guy showed up and I totally got MORE interested in someone much better and never thought even back except for reminding what I don't want in life ever….so I let this testemony for people who think can take others for granted …LIFE is BIGGER …I wasnt looking for anyone at the time. It HAPPENS. As I said…life is NOW . Another example of it, a beatiful dating story of a friend of mine, while deciding about marry or not, she died in an accident. Life is NOW. Only it.

  30. Sada Hasan

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    hello Mr Borrello i have question ,it is possible man can love woman and be scar to go out days with her?

  31. Language Of Desire

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Keep it up. I want more ideas. 👍

  32. Sheena Komukama

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Iam a situation where by iam married ,..I have as on and a daughter on the way but ideally lost weight and my husband who used to call to check on me no longer does that even when ifeel pain he really doesn't care so help me ,..ideally need to gain weight and show him that ican be greater than his mistresses but I don't know wat to do coz he z very distant at the time ineed him most yet iam pregnant and getting sick every time,..what can ieat to gain weight quickly in this pregnancy thank you

  33. Sheena Komukama

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Iam a situation where by iam married ,..I have as on and a daughter on the way but ideally lost weight and my husband who used to call to check on me no longer does that even when ifeel pain he really doesn't care so help me ,..ideally need to gain weight and show him that ican be greater than his mistresses but I don't know wat to do coz he z very distant at the time ineed him most yet iam pregnant and getting sick every time,..what can ieat to gain weight quickly in this pregnancy thank you

  34. Chimalmita1

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Number 4 is sooooo important!

  35. A Humble Pie

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Thank you. It makes sense to me now

  36. shruti Nanda

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    My relationship is now really complicated. I have been in this relationship for now 2 years and for 1 year we were in same city but after that he moved to another city with his mom and that's when it started.. I am person who craves for love,care and attention and in this relationship I gave him a lot of my time care love and attention and now I feel like I'm taken for granted and he has lost his interest too .. I cry a lot thinking about him .. And because of this distance it made things worse .. it's been 2 years now I am loyal to him and I am deeply and madly in love with him idk why he doesn't even love me as much I do and he doesn't give me enough priority it's probably everything over me .. And I have trust issue too because when i got into this relationship he did a lot of stupid things that made me lose my trust like we were in relationship but he didn't want to make it public, he stayed in contact with his ex (the ex that cheated on him) he said his ex that I'm his bff not gf and one day I caught him sending his ex heart emoji but he said they ain't together they were talking about his ex's new guy idk that's when I lost my trust on him but I was so blind in love that I stayed with him and after that he never talked to his ex .. but idk how to make him value me and how to make him more interested in me .. how to make him want me more and prioritize me .. I really need your help please help .. and I am also going through "Relationship anxiety " I probably couldn't focus on my studies and anything else im just thinking about him all time and it hurts.. 😣

  37. Ana Estrabon

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Antonio, what should I do, we're are in long distance relationship. even we've dating many times.

  38. Yesenia Yanez

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Thanks Dr. Borrello. I was wondering if I did the right thing when I told the man who was treating me like a booty call. That I was letting him go, cause he did not want a serious relationship. He never came back, he didn’t even tried to fight for me. Last we talked was about a month ago.

  39. 00 Kool

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Hello support Antonio Borrello Channel:I just started my OWN YouTube channel giving people clean relationship And Real Life Advice,YouTube is not easy work,Any Support comes along way thanks.

  40. Marjorie V

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    What if you've been in a relationship for almost 2 years and you make a mistake and the man doesn't want to be in a relationship with you anymore?

  41. Dee Alex

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    this is why i don't date, because in this era it's just games and drama. i remember good old times when u liked someone you were together, today it's many forms of dating before it's actual relationship. like why complicating things!? people don't want to choose each other anymore,they just want to keep options open and keep an eyes open. i'm just very simple person, if i like someone I want to be with them. cuz i rarely like anyone. dating in this era it's horrible. TBW you are very wise person,keep it up , i love that you explain everything very well.

  42. Abesana Pebam

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    I really like ur vedio

  43. Save Like a Pro with Leah

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Now a days guys plays hard to get game.Thanks for sharing!

  44. U Knowbetta

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    I'd like to see more videos about MAINTAINING a relationship. For married folks or long term relationships that have been together for 10+ years

  45. JE ENN

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Isnt this the same advice as before? I've seen this tips a while ago on this channel

  46. Tsega Kassa

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    Hi Antony I like your advice but how long I give him space sorry about my English i speak deutsch.

  47. Shalonda Fielder

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    I enjoy your videos. Make more relationships advice video. That happened to me in 2009. I try to date. But they always still in love with their ex. I have 5 exes. I never get a chance to go out on a date. Or never in public our dating.

  48. lovely mein

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    How about long distance relationship?

  49. L B 1993brownsuga

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    😊🙌🏾

  50. shruti Nanda

    October 1, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    I am having a really problem in my relationship I really need help from you 😔

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