After two years of residing along with a person as spouse, common Yoruba actress, Bose Oladimeji, says she’s had nearly sufficient and strolling out quick. Her cause is none apart from home abuse, which she says has turn out to be not solely brutally violent however life-threatening as properly.
“Sure I’m able to go, the truth is, I’m not with him proper now. I simply must run for my life, my life could be very treasured to me. I can’t simply permit somebody to kill me like that and I wish to tackle some girls on the market that they need to not love a man due to what he offers them. They need to ensure the love is real and never be fooled by cash and luxury. I’m leaving proper now, I must run away for my life. I would like to avoid wasting myself. My life might be at risk if I proceed to stick with him, so I’m leaving proper now,” she mentioned in a chat with Potpourri.
Highlighting the gory particulars of the abuse, Bose Oladimeji mentioned the beatings begin every time he comes dwelling drunk
“At any time when he’s drunk he’s out of his senses and begins misbehaving, beating me. He acts very loopy. Any weapon he sees round he makes use of it on me however when he’s sober he begins to remorse no matter he has carried out. What I’m saying is that within the technique of beating me what if I collapse and die or get injured, what’s going to folks say?” she mentioned with agony in her eyes.
When requested if she didn’t see it coming, Bose Oladimeji mentioned he pretended and hid his true nature at the start of their relationship, explaining how they met and the way all of the abuse started.
“We meet within the membership via a pal and he was properly offered and loving, humble and respectful and he spent some huge cash that night time however after every little thing, to be trustworthy, we went dwelling individually. The next day we attached and that was how it began. He was taking excellent care of me and that was one of many causes I fell in love with him. However what I discovered odd about him is the forceful method he has intercourse with. No fore., nothing, simply to leap on me and forces his method via. No affection, no cuddling, no romance simply brutal intercourse. I used to be raped like this most nights, and normally adopted by beating and insults,” she added
Although not legally married, they lived collectively for 2 years with points between them. However Bose Oladimeji wouldn’t wish to drag the kids into it.