Kiddwaya’s social media handler has dished out some words to the BBNaija Housemate’s fans as the ship he and Erica were sailing hit the rocks and drowned.
Kiddwaya had told Erica he was not shown love growing up and at such does not know how to express his love, then suggested they be just friends so he doesn’t hurt her any further.His alpha female, however, took this overboard and called off the relationship, noting that he has nothing to offer except sex talks and she is bored about it. She went on and on calling him a spoilt brat and blamed herself for taking to many ‘stupid things’ from him.
Addressing the situation using the hashtag #KiddwayaTheMisjudged, the handler noted that being honest about one’s feelings is a true quality of good character and should be catered for not condemned as it is rare to find. He added that the depth of authenticity is one of the key things for a great relationship and for one to be authentic (as Kidd was to Erica about his feelings), courage and a spirit that cares are required.
“Being honest about your intentions & feelings is a true quality of good character. Most of us commit to emotional dishonesty for selfish benefits or play along until we get what we want. If you care for a person truly, be able to express your true intentions.One of key factor for a great relationship is the depth of authenticity. For authenticity to take place it requires courage, motivation and a spirit that cares.”
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“Feelings develop differently and could take longer for others, give it time. Staying real amidst pressure doesn’t make you a bad person, it means you are emotionally intelligent and able to cater for feelings, it means you aren’t random but a special breed. Honesty is rare and should be catered for not condemned“, he tweeted.