Create a deep, emotional bond with him and keep him from wandering. Emotional intimacy is the main component of a relationship that keeps a man invested long-term. Here are four ways to create a deep bond between you and your man, and keep him from ever wandering, temporarily or permanently.
1. Open up to him.
Your man has to feel comfortable confiding in you. In a world where most men feel they have to act tough just to make it through the day at work or survive a night of beer and football with the guys, they really need a place where they can be vulnerable. As a woman, you should be the one who creates that vulnerability, inviting space for him. You should create a place for him to take off his “man mask” and just be himself.
2. Never fight dirty.
Now that your man has opened up and shared parts of himself with you, guess what happens with a lot of women? They take these revelations and throw them back in their men’s faces in moments of heated argument.
3. Show him you adore him.
Some women are naturally open with their physical affection. They touch and caress their man (or everyone they know) lovingly, tenderly, warmly. These women are goddesses. It’s all about loving touches that soothe the man and invite him into the connection. Please don’t be one of those women whose touches are pulling in nature. Touches that are not caresses but are more taking in their energy are not mindful touches and push men away.
4. Remember to be playful.
Being genuinely playful requires you to feel happy in your life; therefore, you need to start having a positive, loving relationship with yourself. You should dote on yourself. Take any opportunity to laugh, to have fun, and to relax. You should make room to feel your negative feelings and be less hard on yourself when you are feeling down. You should take time for you and take care of your mind, body, and soul. You should find a way to love your job and hobbies, and find the joyousness in them.