The word “s.xy” in modern-day society has become synonymous with the matched drum-beats and stiletto steps made famous by Victoria’s Secret ..


These types of orga sms seem far more attainable and realistic to us:

1. The flair clim ax. It’s not quite a fake. one, but it’s not quite the howling, moaning clawing affair you’re making it out to be. Eh, no harm, no foul. A little clim ax flair never hurt anyone … besides the next door neighbors.

2. The “really wish I was orga sming” faked clim ax. For whatever reason, a legit clim ax is nowhere on the horizon. Maybe you find it difficult to come in general, or you’re having a great time but the Big O just isn’t in the mood to make an appearance, or the s.x is mediocre and you’re over it — but sometimes a fake clim ax is in order. The best fake orga sms — yes, we said “best fake org asms” — are the ones where you really commit and channel the real thing. Meditate on that shit, make it authentic. And, maybe just maybe, if you’re lucky the act of faking it may actually make ye ol’ real clim ax come out of hiding. Hey, it’s been known to happen.

3. The “let’s get this over with” clim ax. s.x is fun and all, but when a new episode of “Scandal” is starting in 10 minutes, it’s time to hit the gas and head straight for the finish line. These orga sms are still good — hell, sometimes they’re great — but they’re more about finishing the job than basking in any sort of post-coital afterglow. Pass the remote!

4. The SURPRISE! clim ax. Many  

women have a tough time clim axing, especially from man-hud-in-v.,ina s.x, and if you’re one of those women, you may find yourself expecting not to hit the big O. But sometimes, seemingly out of nowhere, the stars align, his man-hood is hitting just the right spot, and BAM! Hello there, clim ax, did not expect to make your acquaintance this evening, but so very glad you showed up!

5. The waterworks clim ax. True fact: sometimes your clitoris is directly connected to your tear ducts. You might want to remind your partner of this next time you’re in the throes of pleasure one second, and reaching for a box of tissues the next. Let your tear ducts have their release.

6. The boregasm. You’ve been snowed in all afternoon watching TV or studying for an obnoxious test or suffering from writer’s block and you’ve hit your limit of “distraction activities.” Well, almost hit your limit. There is one more thing that will make you forget all about your current situation.

7. The sad clim ax. I’m sure you’ve heard the saying “I laugh so I won’t cry.” The same goes for orga sms.

While that is s.xy, it is a very “high level” approach to what the word really means. Meaning, we see it from afar, but don’t get into the details of it.

Many of you may have clicked on this article expecting to see a list consisting of amazing legs, a great smile, chiseled abs, and a tan… But what society tells you is s.xy on the surface is often a small piece of the whole puzzle, if it’s a piece of it at all. The first thing we need to do is get rid of this damaging perception that only women who look like airbrushed magazine . are s.xy.

There is so much more to it than that.

So, for those of us who live in the real world, what makes a woman s.xy?

1. Confidence.

Confidence is key. Being “perfect” is not. A strong, purposeful walk, head held high, eye contact, and a wide, welcoming smile go a long way.

Confidence breeds more than  

just a strong presence or attraction — it’s the foundation for a strong life. Success, whatever that means to you. The ability to go after what you want, which is also s.xy. In other words…

2. Ambition.

Ambition gives someone a purpose, a drive, a direction in life. Ambition is s.xy because it lets a man who has his own goals see his mate as a partner, a teammate, someone he can take on the world with — and that’s how a relationship should be.

3. Passion.

Passion for life. Passion for another person. Passion for an interest, a hobby, art, music, anything that drives you. To see a woman in her element and truly loving what she is doing is s.xy. 



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