Clearly, some people are single and may remain so for long because they choose to be. They are simply not interested in being in a serious relationship at this time in their life.
Others are single due to the circumstances of their lives.
They may have just gotten out of a meaningful relationship or have dated relentlessly and just haven’t found someone with whom they’re truly compatible.
Fear of intimacy
Most people profess that they want to find a loving partner, but the experience of real love disrupts fantasies of love that have served as a survival mechanism since early childhood. Pushing away and punishing the beloved acts to preserve one’s negative self-image and reduces anxiety
When we act on rules based on our past, we can create a perpetual cycle of disappointing relationships. Staying open is one of the most important things we can do when looking for a loving partner.
Fear of competition
A lack of self-esteem often leads to fears of competing .When we see that someone else is interested in the person we like; we may be quick to back away.
We may feel unwilling to compete, particularly as we get older, and we start to have self-attacks like “Your time has passed; you’re too old for this.
When we view the world from critical or distrusting eyes, we tend to write off a range of potential partners before even giving them a chance. We think of dating certain people as “settling” without ever seeing how that person could make us happy in the long-term.
When we act on our defenses, we tend to choose less-than-ideal relationship partners. We may establish an unsatisfying relationship by selecting a person who isn’t emotionally available.
Lack of economic means
When you desire to have a partner but you don’t have a sustainable economic means, it may delay your quest to move on in life.
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