1. You are impatient.
This reason should just make sense.
We have all heard the saying, “It happens when you least expect it.”
I believe there is truth in that.
When you keep searching, you’re not living your life.
Instead, you are ignoring your true path by trying to find the perfect person.
You won’t find him or her by spending all the free hours of your day searching the Internet.
You will find him or her by living your life.
The reason you two haven’t met yet is because you aren’t in the right state of mind.
That means you need to work on yourself.
We need to be happy by ourselves, and we need to let go of the baggage that feeds our fears.
When you’re ready to love without fear, you will find your other half.
2. You don’t listen to the universal signs.
The universe is always directing you, but you may not be listening.
Instead, you think because you haven’t met him or her yet, you probably won’t.
The universe is tapping on your door so it can lead you to the perfect person.
But if you’re not listening, how are you going to follow the path that leads to your other half?
Take a few minutes to reflect.
Are you staying with a person because you think you won’t find the perfect match?
Are you doing the wrong thing and you know it, but you refuse to walk away because you feel like you have no other options?
Listen to what your gut is telling you to do. Your gut is always right.
If your gut is telling you to take a solo trip, do it.
Always follow your heart.
It’s the universe directing you down the right road, and for a good reason.
3. You refuse to break the bond with an ex.
You are never going to find your perfect person if you keep your ex on the line. It’s a fact.
It doesn’t matter which one of you has the other one hooked.
If you maintain that bond with your ex, you won’t ever find your other half.
I’ve said it once, and I will say it again: If you have dated more than twice, then the person isn’t right for you.
It doesn’t matter if distance or unhappiness was the reason for the breakup.
If you broke up due to distance, then neither of you found it suitable to maintain a relationship.
That should be a bright sign.
If you two were truly meant to be together, there would be no distance that would hold you back.
If you truly believe trying the same relationship over and over again is the way to go, then knock yourself out.
But don’t be surprised when you find yourself in a loveless marriage with an incompatible partner who you already knew wasn’t the right one for you.
Don’t make your children suffer the divorce because you were too blinded to terminate the bond when you should have.
4. You lost faith.
We all lose faith at some point or another.
We think, “My gosh! I’m 34. Am I ever going to find that person? I feel like I’ve been waiting years, but she just won’t show up.”
She won’t show up because you’re too busy seeing an ex, not listening to the signs and being impatient.
You must have faith the universe will bring you together when the time is right.
But if you can’t fix yourself first, you won’t meet your other half.
If you firmly believe there is a perfect person for you, that person exists.
The universe told you so, just by giving you the idea your perfect person exists.
If you ever hope to have a happy ending, you must restore your faith.
You must break the unhealthy bonds.
You must truly embrace life and open your heart to love.
I know it can be hard to wait. I have been waiting for years.
I’m still waiting, but I know I can’t lose faith.
We can’t focus our energies on continually trying to find that person.
You have to listen to your heart.
Follow your gut. Follow your intuition.
Follow your path to your other half.
Maybe then, we can have that fairytale ending we all desire, but no longer believe exists.