Often times, people find it hard to love again after a terrible heartbreak. It’s usually advised to take a short break to cry over the loss, and then bounce back to life. Just in case your relationship ended with last year, it’s time to start off a new series of love. Most of us began last year with the expectation of either finding our soulmate or getting married to the one we most love. But somehow, our romantic hopes got dashed due to reasons we may not be able to explain. Do not risk losing another chance as the new year is already two months gone. It is about time to find a soulmate in 2016. You don’t have worry your cute head about how everything will turn out – this article will guide you.
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1. Find Yourself
Before you find a soulmate, you should first find yourself. Finding one’s self takes a lot of patience and sensitivity. You need to think deep and ask yourself some questions only you can answer. Who am I? What do I want for myself? What are my dreams? What kind of man/woman will fit into my dreams? Once you get that sorted out, you are sure of a clearer picture of the qualities you are looking for in a soulmate.
2. Extend A Smile
Most relationship experts say that the best way(s) to get attention from the opposite sex is to always wear a smile – a sincere one. Smiling works like magic. Trust me, no one would ever love to be with a frowning face. Even psychologists say its unhealthy to be around people who usually carry long faces – starring at morose faces on regular basis can shorten one’s life span. Start a non-verbal conversation with a warm smile, greet everyone as possible and let the world feel your sweet aura.
3. Soul-Search Check
Most times, men and women fail to realize that there are specific traits and characteristics which can drive potential partners away. It could be rudeness, lose-tongue syndrome, bad temper, pessimism or even sheer lack of personal hygiene. Find out what yours is and work on it. That’s how to check if you are eligible for a soul search. Tackle your shortfalls so that when you eventually success in your strife they won’t ruin what you’ve worked so hard to achieve.
4. Give Out A Helping Hand
If you are opportuned to converse with elderly couple who have lived together for over 30 years, you will notice a trend. They will often times share touching stories of how one helped the other even without an intention to date each other. People get emotionally attached to someone who has helped them one way or the other. It could be by a simply geture of offering a piece of valuable advice, paying fare for someone, or even a shoulder to cry on.
It’s amazing to know how someone could be watching while you embark on such charitable duties. Or it may be your soul mate you are lending a helping hand to. You never can tell how you will meet that special someone you always wished to have.
5. Stay Focused
Telling a single person to stay focus often has been mistaken to mean focusing on the chances of finding that special someone. NO! Focus on your life and career, stay glued to your dream and aspirations. Humans are not animals who hook up with just anybody from the opposite sex, we are designed to fall in love with hard working and productive people. Most ladies would say they are more attracted to hardworking men because they sense an aura of responsibility around them. Focus on your job, commit yourself to get higher grades in college, do the best you can to stay on top and every other thing, with regards to finding a soulmate, will fall in place without you necessarily putting too much effort to make it happen.
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