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Wedding Planning Hacks For Brides Who Hate WeddingsZUMI

Some people just don’t like weddings. It’s not unusual or extraordinary, but it can be a . of worry for brides who hate weddings when they themselves have to get married. Not everybody is about the noise and drama of getting married-whether it’s their wedding or someone else’s.

If you’re in this category of brides who hate weddings and you have yours coming up, here’s how not to lose your mind in the process.

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We have some ideas:

Find out which parts you actually like

Brides that love clothes, focus on fashion. If you’re all about food, create a kick-ass menu. You can show your mixologist skills by coming up with a signature cocktail for the day. Get involved in whatever part of the wedding planning you know you’ll genuinely enjoy doing. If you focus on the parts you enjoy, planning your wedding won’t feel like a soul-crushing experience.

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God created wedding planners and experts for a reason: so that you don’t have to deal with the messy details. If you have a competent wedding planner (supervised by an equally competent friend), you can actually just show up on the day and get married.

Get rid of unnecessary rituals
brides that hate weddings

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It’s not compulsory to have a bridal shower, a bridal train, or a photo shoot, or a rehearsal. Wedding rituals are done for a reason, and they can be nice and heartwarming, but if you’d rather not, then don’t. No one should bully you into doing something you don’t want just because you’re getting married.

Make your wedding yours
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One of the reasons some people don’t like weddings is the routine and sameness of it all. Well, why not just do you? It’s possible to get married in your backyard with only five people attending. You can get married on the beach, wearing a yellow dress. You can have a registry wedding and a small lunch after. There are so many rules when it comes to weddings that you can break all the rules and have a ceremony that you’ll actually look forward to.

Or you could just elope and save yourself the trouble.

Have a small wedding
brides that hate weddings

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An alternative to going wildly unconventional is to have a small wedding. You won’t have to deal with the noise of people you barely know at your wedding, and it’s so much easier to plan when you’re not thinking of 400 people!

Getting married is all about you and your partner, keep that in mind. A future with them beside you is the goal, and everything else is just extra details.

brides that hate weddings

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It’s annoying when brides are put into the same box. These myths about brides should be trashed.

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Here’s How To Show Up At Every Wedding Like Her.ZUMI

We all know that Rita Dominic has a wedding guest style that is absolutely goals! And instead of waiting to be like her when you grow up, we know how you can step out for your next owambe, Rita Dominic style.

Here you go:

1. Don’t be basic

Choose an outfit that will wow every fashion designer on the planet, even the one who made it.  You can do this by checking out our weekly wedding guest inspiration styles.

Rita Dominic style

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2. Be bright and colourful

Be bright and lovely in feminine and chic colours. Try not to overdo it, because .ing with colours can be tricky sometimes, but by all means shine bright like a diamond.

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3. Get a superstar hairstylist

It doesn’t have to be a celebrity stylist but it has to be someone that has been tried, tested and trusted! You can already have a great hairstyle on your mind or saved from Pinterest. Being like Rita Dominic is no joke but it’s within your reach.

4. Serve sauce with your face like you’re hot peppersoup

Yes o, hot pepper-soup!  Don’t act like white rice when you’re jollof rice. Serve sauce with that face and let them know you didn’t come to .. Rita always has the perfect expression and a face beat to match. Do your own too.

Rita Dominic style

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5. Perfect your pose

You can’t rock it like Aunty Riri if you don’t have the right pose. So put on all your confidence and grace and work it baby!

Rita Dominic style

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Now that you know how to show up the Rita Dominic style, check out why Tania Omotayo  is chill wedding guest goals!



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