Though arranged marriages do have success rate, it can also be a good thing to date a lot before marriage. Of course, we are not recommending dating as many people as possible, but dating the person that you are planning marry, may have some advantages.
Of course, dating doesn’t mean only romance or getting intimate with the other person. It can mean just going out with that person and spending some time.
Sometimes, spending time with a person can give you a better idea about what kind of person you are going to marry. You can carefully observe the person and analyse his or her qualities. How that person reacts to certain situations and how he or she handles stress are some important aspects that might decide the compatibility between both of you.
Now, let us talk about the benefits of dating before marriage.
You Can Talk About Many Things: When you get a chance to go out with a person, you will have some time to talk about many topics. Also, you can see whether you can get along with each other before marriage.
You Will Know Your Partner Better: When you date, you will know what the other person is, below the external surface. People might actually pretend during the initial meetings, but gradually, you will be able to see the true colours of the person.
You Can Tell About Your Expectations: Once you feel a bit comfortable with that person, you can start telling about what you expect from the relationship and also ask about the other person’s expectations.
Doing all this might help you take a decision about getting married or cancelling the engagement.
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