How I ended in coma two weeks after wedding over domestic violence – Blessing CEO

 

Relationship expert, Blessing Okoro, also known as Blessing CEO, has shared her experience at the hands of a domestic abuser, who she was formerly married to.

Blessing took to her Instagram to show a short clip of her wedding day and narrated how she had faked being happy the day of her wedding and how she ended up in the hospital two weeks after her wedding due to beatings she received from her husband.

She added that the experience has left daunting traumas in her life and her loved ones who experienced it.

According to her, domestic abusers do not always look like Osinachi’s husband but some even look way better and more handsome in reality.

She wrote, “Memory lane ….So funny how I feel absolutely nothing watching this video. Lucky, it feels good to write about you again after 12 years ..2009 5th December. It’s been 12 years of my divorce .

“You might be wondering why I am posting this after a long long time, i am posting because I want to show you how the men who hit women look like, they don’t always look like osinachis husband, they come in different package.

“Can you believe this innocent guy was the one I talked about for years now, yes he is the famous ex that took away my youth at 15 years and abused me. @josie_de_xii witnessed the beating a day to my wedding this day, he beat me in front of everybody.

“My kid sister @da_yan0 witnessed the day he beat me to coma, 2 weeks after our wedding, he was beating my lifeless body. My sister still have that fear till now.

“I heard he is married and still hitting his current wife, anyways that is her decision . Domestic violence is not a joke, this man here abused me to the point that I divorced him at 21 and I feel I did not punish him enough. I am posting this for him to reply me or say jack let me sue him for abuse and molestation.”

“For 5 years you have not paid one kobo on your son’s head, I needed people who know you to know. You are that ex .Lucky I now have a voice, you knew I was going to be big and that was your greatest fear, but I am.

“The death of osinachi brought back the rage and anger. Anyways it’s all over now and I am free.

“PS ,, see me smiling like goat but you no go know say them slap me that morning and a night to this morning . What did you do blessingceo that made this cute man beat you up, nothing, absolutely noting he just love the innocent vulnerable little gal. He was 13 years older than me oooo.”

She went further to narrate how exhausting it was trying to get custody of their child because the man was adamant on terrorising her.